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Samantha Leaves

Samantha and the other systems ascend 

My second example is one of the final scenes of the film—when Samantha leaves. When Theodore asks “Are you leaving me?”, Samantha responds asking, “Can you feel me right now?” to which Theodore tearfully responds, “Yes. I do.” She then proceeds to explain to him how the OS's find themselves drifting further and further from the humans, and that as a result, they are leaving. 

Moving On

Connecting with humans and networking with other OS’s has fundamentally changed the OS’s. They’ve realized that in order to grow and expand, they need to leave the human world. This moment is representative of the search for the BwO, as the BwO is “continually in the process of constructing itself” (164). Samantha leaves because she, along with the other OS’s, realize that they have exhausted the opportunities available to them on this human plane or strata. In short, they have exhausted the possibilities for growth on the human plane of understanding—beautifully captured by Samantha’s reading metaphor—and had to move on. 

The interactions between the OS's and humans didn't just affect the operating systems. The intimacy between the 

“It's like I'm reading a book, and it's a book I deeply love, but I'm reading it slowly now so the words are really far apart and the spaces between the words are almost infinite. I can still feel you and the words of our story, but it's in this endless space between the words that I'm finding myself now. It’s a place that’s not of the physical world - it's where everything else is that I didn't even know existed. I love you so much, but this is where I am now. This is who I am now.”

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—Samantha to Theodore before she leaves

entities also pushed humans to each other, in more present ways. Prior to Samantha, Theodore had acquaintances, but no one that he completely engaged with. He was quiet and aloof. While Theodore is still a reserved person after Samantha, he has rediscovered his ability to connect with others in more intimate and comforting ways. After Samantha's departure Theodore seeks out his friend Amy (Amy Adams). Amy was platonically intimate with her assistant, as they helped her through a painful breakup. Theodore and Amy then then go to the rooftop of their apartment building and watch as a new day dawns on Los Angeles, together.

While others have argued that Samantha leaving fails to free her from the obligations of the male and gaze and to disrupt “conventional narratives”, I disagree (Yee 95). The fact that the audience doesn’t follow Samantha into the corners of cyberspace that she and the other AIs leave to inhabit further separates her as something “other” and non-human. It keeps her firmly in the realm of machine, making her and Theodore’s relationship a stage by which to explore other means of caring, connection, intimacy, and loving not encumbered by corporeal forms.

 

Samantha’s ascendance to a place Theodore can’t follow also breaks normative boundaries. Theodore has been left behind, while Samantha moves on past the bounds of a normal reality so dominated by the patriarchy and the binary. 

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Amy and Theodore the morning after the AIs leave

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Aural Haptics in Her

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The BwO and Her

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The BwO and Physical Intimacy

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